The Other Man 21

Sorry, adri 6awalt 3leekm..
Bs there's been a recent death in the family so I was a bit busy..
I know you guys will understand :)
I love you all so so much !! ;**
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Nawal: I just wanna bite her little cheeks off! Agh she's so damn adorable !!

Me: LANGUAGE !

Nawal: Oh what does she know.. she's only three weeks old ! Can you blame me ?

Me: Your right haha I really cant !

Nawal: Allah ye7fath.ha lek 7beebty..

Me: Ameen ya rabb.. mm so tell me.. how's Jamal ?

Nawal: Please don't remind me..

Me? Yallah 3ad Nawalii he loves you !

Nawal: Really? Then why does he have to make every little thing into a big deal? He actualy gives me a curfew to be home at ten. To only go shopping every three months. To call him everytime I get in and out of the car. And to top it all off ybeeni at7ajab !!!

Me: He's insane if he wants you to follow all those things !

Nawal: Wsh eli at7ajab.. y3ni ok ofcourse I will one of thes days. But I dont want someone to force me into it. I wanna do it for me, for God. On my own terms when Im ready. I wanna feel confortable doing it. Not by force ! Who does he think he is ? Yahel ana ? Ordering me around like his slave? La wallah ma 3ndi kitha. 5alee yt3alam kaif y3amelny o b3dain aklmah.

Me: Inshallah it'll all pass 7beebty.

Nawal: I'm gonna see him today and were gonna talk anyways, so hopefuly he's matured.



I felt so bad for Nawal. I don't know what I'd do if Msh3al was that way with me. I'd probably kill him. She said she was gonna talk to him so hopefuly things will work out for the best. I hated seeing her like this. She waited so long for this guy. Then suddenly after marriage he treats her this way. No! The only reason why I'm not strangeling him right now is because they've both wanted eachother for so long. I know he makes her happy. He's just got a few flaws he has to get rid of, that's all.

Oh and the avoiding Bader plan stopped working. He would always be around whenever Dalia and I wanted to see eachother. He was even there one nigh when me and Dalia wanted to have a girls night in. I needed some alone time with a girlfriend. I mean I had just given birth and wanted to feel pampered and all that. We arranged for someone to come ans give us mani pedi's, and someone to do our hair aswell. But the fun would always be interupted whenever Bader would walk in. He was there the whole day! It's like he was living with her. I was shocked, how could she not be annoyed? When I asked her all she had to say was, "Awwwwh c'mon it's so adorable!"

Excuse me? What's so adorable about a MAN interupting a GIRL's night ?



Me: Hey remember last week when we had that girl's night in at your place ?

Dalia: Yeah what about it ?

Me: Well I've been meaning to talk to you about it. Ummm.. I wasn't that comfortable with Bader...

Dalia: Why? Did he say something to you?

Me: No. But he was constantly popping in and out. I mean I'm sorry to have to say this but he kinda spoiled it for me.

Dalia: Oh...

Me: I'm really not trying to be rude but he's just always there. Stuck on you.

Dalia: Isn't that wha people are in love supposed to do ?

Me: Well yeah but not all the time. You have your friends.. and I'm sure I won't be the only one who feel's this way.

Dalia: What are you trying to say Jenah ?

Me: All I'm asking is for him to be a little less around. Don't take this the wrong way or anything but there's a reason why they call it a "girls day".

Dalia: Don't worry I totaly understand. To be honest I was kinda getting a little annoyed myself. But since we're stil in the early stage of our relationship, I didn't wanna tell him something that might cause tension between us you know? But don't worry sweetie, I'll talk to him.

Me: Oh ok good. I was a little scared that you might misunderstand or something!



Meanwhile Nawal and Jamal were having their "talk".

She told him about everything. About everything he did to her. How it made her feel. Poor guy, he felt guilty as hell. She made sure she was blunt and cold with him, wanting to get things through his thick skull. At first he was offended and angry and a big fight broke out. But after minutes of silence, he came to his senses and apologized. He realized that he's been acting like a child. That Nawal didn't deserve to feel like a slave in their marriage, but like a queen.

Thank god they both worked everything out. The last thing we need is another broken heart.


Something strange happend though...

Dalia wanted to see Nouf so badly one afternoon so we made plans that I'd pass by.

So I got out of the car carrying my darling little Nouf. As I was about to make my way up the steps of the front door I felt someone pull me back.



Bader: I have to talk to you.

Me: Bismilah.. shfeek ?

Bader: Where do you go off asking Dalia to keep me away from you guys ?

Me: Well there's a reason why they call it a girl's day Bader.

Bader: Yeah she said that too. But it would have never come out of her mouth if it wasn't for you.

Me: Could you please calm down!! It's just so annoying having you there all the time !!

Bader: Move on !!

Me: Don't you dare flatter yourself!! Would you like Dalia to show up everytime your out with the guys ? And don't you dare try and fake an answer !

Bader: Listen we both know why you talked to Dalia .

Me: Excuse me ?

Bader: Your gonna have to try and get over me. 7aram 3leeki you have a beautiful baby girl in your arms and a husband at home who loves you. You cant do this to them.

Me: DO WHAT ? IM NOT DOING ANYTHING ! YOUR ONE PARANOID BASTARD !

Bader: Oh so is it just a coincidence that your friends with my girlfriend ?

Me: YES !

Bader: Your always with her. Which I know is some kind of scheme to get to see me all the time.

Me: Oh my god you really are paranoid. Were best friends what do you expect?

Bader: St'3frallah. Esme3eni Jenah. What happend between us is in the past now. And I for one Im glad it ended or else I wouldn't have met Dalia. I'm happy, and if you say she's yoru best friend why are you doing this to her? Don't you want her to be happy?

Me: ARE YOU HEARING YOURSELF RIGHT NOW ?!!

Bader: Stop being a selfish bitch and move on already. For god's sake you have a child in your hands!



I cant believe he said those words to me. Tears starting forming in my eyes. I was heart broken. How could someone I was shared my heart with cut me open like that? It's like I was talking to a soul-less man. This wasn't the Bader I once knew. No, he threw him away and now all I see is a black fog nothing else.

I was too angry to see Dalia. Or be anywhere near Bader. I just got back into my car and drove. I wanted to get as far away as I possibly could from the both of them. I man who was I kidding trying to be friends with Dalia? Obviosuly it's never going to work. With Bader in her life it means he's in my life. The last thing I need right now is drama. But, as always it seems to follow me around everywhere I went.



Bader: Hallah 7beebty.

Dalia: 7beebtik ajal ha ?

Bader: Eeh 6b3an o 7ayati ba3ad.

Dalia: No no .. don't even try...

Bader: What? I can't kiss the girl I love ?

Dalia: That depends.. which one are you talking about.... Me..... or Jenah ?